I love calling people nerds even though I’m the actual fucking nerd.
You’re not in control of what happens to you, but you are in control of how you react to what happens to you.
When your instinct tells you something, listen. If you find yourself doing something out of habit and it suddenly hits you like a sack of bricks that your heart isn’t in it, abandon it. Impostors and shams of happiness are no one’s friend.